I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 7 months now and have known her for a little over a year. When I met my girlfriend, I also met her best friend shortly after. It became extremely apparent to me and my soon to be girlfriend that her best friend …
I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 7 months now and have known her for a little over a year. When I met my girlfriend, I also met her best friend shortly after. It became extremely apparent to me and my soon to be girlfriend that her best friend was crushing on me hard. And I will admit that at least up until my girlfriend and I made it official, I would entertain it (not shut it down) and on 4 instances over the course of 5 months reciprocated. Once my girlfriend and I made it official, we were for a lack of better words “locked in” and very public. Fast forward to yesterday, my girlfriend, her best friend, another friend of mine and I are at my house drinking and we are very drunk. Eventually my friend uber’d home and it’s now just the 3 of us. We the drank more and started playing twister. Obviously this is when things started to get heavy and heated. We all agreed to just do it at this point with my girlfriend now insisting that we do it. My girlfriend ushers us to the bedroom, then goes to the bathroom and the best friend starts making out with me. Because we weren’t clothed she gets on top of me while making out and me and her start. After a few seconds we stop and go searching for my girlfriend. We found her in the bathroom and then began again. This morning now, my girlfriend is fuming because we started without her. Even though it was a few seconds of it, she is upset with the fact that it began, just me and her best friend in the first place. She says that she wanted it but not just between the best friend and I. I am trying to reassure her that I stopped and looked for her but it’s not working I am not an idiot, I know what I did was wrong. But now I just wanna know and seek advice on the best things to say to her, the best way to navigate the situation in general. Our relationship is in the balance now and it is very difficult for both of us. Thanks
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