Hi guys I think I need help .Please don't judge ...All my life have always been a good girl and kept myself...I have a rule not to date .Never wanted to be used by any guy ..And have always wanted a relationship that will leave to marriage Till last year …
Hi guys I think I need help .Please don't judge ...All my life have always been a good girl and kept myself...I have a rule not to date .Never wanted to be used by any guy ..And have always wanted a relationship that will leave to marriage
Till last year I turned 20 and few days after my Birthday
Few months after my birthday I feel in love with a guy .who also told me he liked me too ..He told me he was tired of dating and was looking for a relationship that will lead to marriage.
I was happy and taught he was the one for me ..After I agreed to be his girlfriend
He was so caring and patient
He knew I was a virgin so he was patient with me
After two months of dating I told him I was ready to have sex with him .it was a nice experience and two of us really enjoyed it
As time goes by our relationship started feeling like it was all about sex ..
But since I loved him ..I didn't complain
After 6 months of dating he started complaining about lot of things ..said I wasn't good in bed ..said I should get Pussy Sweater.said I was boring
I tried my best and started watching porn and allot of things ..just to please my man .
Or I'm having an affair with my boss..
I always assured him that I can never do anything to hurt him
He always complain about every little thing but I will always beg him because I really love him
Just to prove my love for him ,I always get him gifts and cook for him with my money
But yet he always complained about everything.He even said he wted to a third party in the relationship at some poi
But I still tried my best just to keep my relationship
Because of him I had to quit my job since he thinks I'm cheating on him with boss
But guess what after 10 months of relationship he broke up with me
I even begged him
He didn't listen
I couldn't even forgive myself,I was so sad and broken
I was so sad and I hated myself
Every night I can't sleep without thinking about him
I always see him in my dream
Buh I was already addicted to sex because of him
Me that I don't use to allow guys touch me
It been 3 month we broke up and have already had sex with 5 different guys I'm dating
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First 🥳 Say heattttt😂 The woman king purr President general😂
Wonso woo y3 bi ? Tsw
See err we are all going through a lot ooo,so when you need help try and summarize biko
You’ve started the hookup bravo 🙌
Welcome To Life is all I can say! You think you are in control but Life has a different agenda for you
Look my dear, he's a player. He got what he wanted, sex. Move on. You're young..
Hmmmm virgin turn streets
She also believed in love like some of us did😂😂😂 Buh instead of taking things slow She already had sex with 5 diff guys she’s dating Like that kinda rush thing
Hmmm it is well dear Men will always be men You don’t have to displease yourself to please a man
Hmm...so sorry to hear this. Many boys won't help.
Yooo you’ve tried… why do this ladies lie to themselves dah they will marry the person who breaks their virginity. Is yo moms who paints dah illusion or it’s just self righteousness. Ask yo mother if it’s possible😒
It’s sad but just take time ….you’ll overcome this dear
Oh chaley, sorry erhh. Looks like you're trying to replace him with the other guys... It's alright. You don't need anything or anyone else to fill the void. You are okay as you are. You did well as a girlfriend, it was him that did not do well and you know it. Don't blame yourself wai.
Virginity na scam in some sense
Your boyfriend breaks up with and u use that as a excuse to sleep with 5 people with in 3 months 👏
I understand you rough 😌 We’ve all been through it Me too I told myself the same thing 😂😂😂 Girl breathe and relax okay? Give yourself this short break Tell yourself, “I’m not going to see any man till the end of this year” Try it for me It’ll be fine 🥰🥰
The floodgate is finally open so it's just a matter of water passing through
Oh sad... You really had a vision until the devil came and show you shege Now you turn hook up girl but for free. Hmm sorry er
Take time and mend yourself...Cox if you continue like this No guy would say i dont like sex..most guys date for sex,try and control your self
Ouch, sorry stop dating and work on yourself yeah or you can even try evangelism🥲😹
Herrrr, my lady what are you doing to yourself? It’s a mindset so change that mindset of sleeping with everyone you meet cos you will be used and you will regret. Be careful
You so need therapy
That’s what I do and I have help a lot of people not only ladies so understand, right
Life isn’t all about dating. Decenter men in ur life and center ur life around other things. Ur so young and u letting the opposite sex ruin ur life Smh
First paragraph, last line: "that will leave to marriage" ❌ "That will lead to marriage ✅ Second paragraph: "I was happy and taught "❌ "I was happy and thought" ✅ Okay so go and see a therapist to help okayyyyyy, go and see a counsellor okay.
Machine working here and there Boiɛ 🤓
Unleash the horny beast You doing great …
Try and talk to a counselor or someone u can trust .no ur wealth with time u will feel okay
the syndrome is very contagious 😂😂once you hit p3 it continues like that. and so the body counts begins
Eeeeeissh, portfolio management paa nie😳😂😂😂
Now you only understand the language of tatata
This life unfairness be wild tho....we dey pray say we go meet people like us buh chale....no matter how bad u try,you go meet the opposite....you have already messed up....would have searched for ya
Some boys be heartless oh Stop playing 😂💔🔥
So that's what happens when you people break your virginity,oh wow 🙂
Some people are just demons sent to destroy lives ooo....join alpha hour my dear
I hope some of the guys are not from this app because most of them are always Horny .Please you have more years to live work on yourself and become a better person that you can be proud of ,even though it’s not easy but I believe you can achieve it.Take care
Ops that's very bad dear Hm You need to do something about it
A🤍: Epain you oo 😂 : If you believe in love na your own wahala It’s messed up Chale 💀
just try to get over somethings okay everyone has something the ruins him/her try very hard or else....
If your virginity get broken and you don't take your time and controlled your under any circumstances. You gonna be having sex dear .You need to control yourself
My dear you should first not be guilty, it’s a first sign of your healing, it’s you looking down upon yourself that led you to date the other guys Take responsibility, accept you were wrong , ready to learn and move on You need positive vibes around you
He's destroyed your life. The reason behind no sex until marriage. Now, you are sharing your body with just any man who approaches you. It is well yh
When you see red flag don’t ignore
When it’s coming and it’s doing 😹😹
Aren't you afraid of get an infection
You can use Dildo for satisfaction than having to sleep with multiple guys
You get girl ? Make her use dildo n stop eating her😹
Did you know dildo can give you STI’s too
Dildo don’t cause STD I was asking in case u had a reasonable answer
It can only cause infections if u share the dildo Dildo is supposed to be a single use
Genitals are shared that’s how infections spread. Same thing.
You're still a good girl, and you deserve to be happy Try and see a therapist, you need to heal and unlearn those bad experiences. Also see the good side of the situation (your present bf won't complain about being bored on bed again) But still you're not a sex addict and you're not a bad person. Just heal
Awwwww sorry give your heart to Christ
Things are rlly happening
Hmmm u should try to do away with it.....try and get something doing to put your mind off sexually related acts