I have been dating this guy(21yrs) for 5yrs but it’s a long distance relationship so we don’t really spend time together. Recently I met this guy(31yrs) and I really like him and his vibe too. He keeps me company, advices me, gets me stuff and makes me happy too but …
I have been dating this guy(21yrs) for 5yrs but it’s a long distance relationship so we don’t really spend time together. Recently I met this guy(31yrs) and I really like him and his vibe too. He keeps me company, advices me, gets me stuff and makes me happy too but he says he wants to marry me after school. I’m really in a dilemma and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to break hearts too. Any advice on what to do? Either I should ignore or accept?
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Do whatever you choses
You don’t want to break hearts and u accepted the new guy 😏😏😏 Masa do whatever you choses
why would you entertain another guy when you're in a relationship.. some of you erhn.. I dunno
Do you have hope in the long distance relationship??
I need a gf. I’ve been single for all two decades of my life
its only an unfaithful person who fears to be in a distance relationship.. and for the little time I have been here, most of the cheats in the long distance relationships have been females.. not like I am saying all females do so anyway
small gal see u. Herrr u guys the way the world make hot no, do u guys feel the heat some cos eiiiii
Im in a long distance relationship too... And it takes a lot of trust and hope to keep it going... That's why im asking... if she doesn't have hope with him, and feels she can move on with the new guy.. why not?
The moment I saw "gets me stuffs" p3. I knew your love life is influenced by money. Ladies are indeed more loyal to their feelings than to a man's sacrifice.
I am at this point tired of girls getting good things and messing them up. by now the new guy has no freaking idea that she has a boyfriend who's not close
The thing is long distance relationships barely work out ,so I think the gal should just go ahead and marry the new guy cox that might be her chance
dont say anything else. Girls are selfish.
there's no way around it dear.... u have to brake one heart....but be sure it's wat u really want
you should know the difference between sarcasm and facts 😭 I was being sarcastic
I understand you. Happened to me too. For us girls its important to get physical touch. I used to liked when my bf touch or we anything. U must go with the new guy
Some girls be too selfish ooh
You knew someone over a yrs just gave up on him because you met a new one with other stuffs girls and money 🤦🏽♂️💔
Everyday love love love Una Dey try ooo😂😂😂😂
How old are you by the way?
U see women? Fuck! These hoes can’t be trusted Go to hell girl
Lol she'll low-key go out with the guy and when the long distance guy calls, she'll be like she's at home doing nothing. She'll be on phone with the new guy when the long distance guy calls, you tell him it was a friend meanwhile you know you genuinely know that, that's not the way the guy sees you and you genuinely know that, that's not what you also feeling. If you've done all of this to the long distance guy, it's best if you inform him that, you can't continue this relationship again.
Why didn't you tell the new guy you had someone when he approached you initially? You're not in any dilemma. You made a choice the moment you accepted the new guy so go with it. For the hearts breaking de3 it will happen cos you can't marry the two guys except that you intend to cheat with one on other.
You’ve started already Finish what you started That’s what y’all ladies are good at
Why will you be in a relationship and entertain someone else?😂 Anyways…give me the new guy🙂
You have already broken trusts. You can't be loyal to your own self. Gellawt
This one de33 dilemma of a ghost oo
I’ve been through this exact dilemma. Balancing long-distance and someone new who makes you happy is tough. Ultimately, you have to follow your heart and choose what feels right for your future. Remember, it’s okay to prioritize your happiness. You’re not alone in facing this!
The question is, will you be ready for marriage after school or are you ready for marriage ? Just relax, it might be an agenda that will leg you weep some time to come 😆
Maame company, we all know your choice go for it let distance relationship be
Long distant relationships do work I wish you’ll be more patient with the one you were already with before this new guy came Communication babe communication 👍
This is the situation nowadays we the youngins are fighting with older men for relationships just because we are not there yet🤦🏻♂️
You aren't serious nor intelligent for how can you be dating and still accept another? You are now confused by sex and his money Abi? Contìnue dey play wai I always say most females aren't intelligent at all but just very wicked paaa and love unncecessary useless fun with bad boys la
Take the advice out woman, we all know is because he buy you stuffs like you said, that's why you want to leave your old boyfriend. You want to use advice as your excuse so people will support you
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Ignore both of them u are too young to date
Accept him The 21 guy won't do anything
If the 31 year is financially capable and you think he is doing well as your husband. Find ¢1000- ¢2000 and give to the 21 yr and tell him you are getting married.
You wan make we advise you or what?
Always remember, girls marry men who are ready and men marry girls who are available!! Food for thought!
If u don’t want to break hearts, why did u lure the other into ur life n u now here asking for a way to use So u paa who do u want to keep n who do u want to break ties with him?
You are already cheating. What is there to think about
Forget about breaking heart and be with the one that you holds the highest chance of settling down with you soon
Kumasi fuor ne double dating boi3. Fear women 😂😂😂
U must pay him all he has spent on u b4 u move to da next guy mpo