Im a university student in level 100. I met this boy when I first came to the university we were friends and one day he asked me to be his girlfriend. He knew a secret and basically blackmailed me into dating him. He wanted to get a phone and wanted …
Im a university student in level 100. I met this boy when I first came to the university we were friends and one day he asked me to be his girlfriend. He knew a secret and basically blackmailed me into dating him. He wanted to get a phone and wanted to borrow money from me. I lied and told him I had money in my bank account which was half true. He needed 5000cedis in addition to his money to get the phone. I then stole 2500 from my parents and added the money in my account to it. My parents found out and are very disappointed in me. This isn't the first time something like this has happened. I cannot help it and I constantly take money and give it to other people once they need it. My parents dont want a daughter who steals and I also dont want to be a thief. I want to break up with this boy but he has refused. I basically take care of this boy. I literally give him almost all my monthly allowance and I'm broke in the end. I know it stupidity cause I dont even love him. Please I need advice not insults. Thanks
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Is that foolish boy aware that you’ve been stealing money for him
Since you’ve been helping people when they need money me I need only 500gh o
This isn't small secret I guess
You said you knew it stupidity and you still want advice Cmon girl
Go n talk to ur sch counselor and police na u’re fooling too much foolish
Stealing from your parents repeatedly, giving away money you don’t have. it’s not just “helping people,” it’s a compulsive need to please at your own destruction. If you don’t stop, it could ruin your family’s trust forever and even affect you.
Note: you don’t love him. FYI, it’s obvious you’re doing all this because he has your secret, not because of love. You’re basically pleasing him so he won’t leak it, that’s control, not a relationship. The longer you stay, the more he’ll use you. Break free before you destroy yourself completely.
The painful truth is you over care and naive . You hit me up let's talk , tu gyidie Anam)n .
Tell ur parents about it after that report it to the police station before he do something stupid to u. If u know his parents too let ur parents go to them and tell them if something happen to u is their son
If it's a blackmailing, most universities has consultation and counselling team for such matters. You can start from there
What do you mean by he refused to agree to the break up? Do you need consent first to be able to free yourself of this stupidity?
Girl it about time you start saying no to him else he will push you to do certain things that will affect you badly
No be juju be this ?
This secret he knows must be really bad for you
This secret he knows must be really bad for you
Another reminder that just because your partner refuses to accept a break up doesn't mean they can force you to stay. Leave them to deal with their delusions. They don't need to accept it before you break up with them Why do so few people understand this??? I just don't get it
He do "For Gals".
Or he’s using juju on u
As soon as you said level 100 then the story spoil
Just imagine what will happen in your house if you marry this junior Ataa Ayi She’ll steal your money and say the kids are doing it
Continue ma Sell your fathers house and give him I don’t know what’s the problem here It’s obvious you need to break up with him Let him spill the secret What haven’t happened before
Hey dearie well I don't know what secret of yours he has that made you date him in the first place, but if it's anything like nudes or something he's got saved on a PC or a phone. DM lemme help you hack it. If not leaks then, I don't think it'll hurt to tell your parents since they've caught you stealing already I'm not sure it would come as a very surprising thing to them. No matter what, they're going to protect you so just let them know and be remorseful. Get counseling after because helping someone when you don't have is insane. I gotcha❤️
Girl it about time you start saying no to him else he will push you to do certain things that will affect you badly
Nonsense, are you in the position to tell us whether to insult you or not? 🙄 🙄 U brain is indeed small so we won't blame you that much
You need cane aswear
Tell your parents🤦🏾♂️
break up with him and have your peace
Is not true